Connection type

The Wildcard

It refuses to become one clear thing.

A Wildcard connection will not hold a definition. Friends, almost, together, apart, back again: the form keeps changing and neither of you can quite explain the rule.

What it feels like

Signs you are in one.

• Sign

  You have no simple answer when people ask what you are.

• Sign

  Contact comes in bursts after long silences.

• Sign

  The timing has never once been convenient.

• Sign

  You have ended it and then not ended it.

In the charts

Where it shows up.

Wildcard pairs mix Uranus and Neptune contacts with an unstable Venus or Mars link, so the charge is real but the structure never sets.

The unpredictability is the pattern, not an interruption of it. Once you can see the loop written out, you can decide whether to stay inside it.

The shadow side · Waiting for the version of them that shows up on the good weeks to become permanent.